
So summer camp started. I was very nervous for this to start. I have never been a director before this summer, and I was in charge of 25 junior higher.
Typical week:
Monday work 6:30am - 9:00am meet parents and sign in kids. 9:00am - 10:00am play games and team builders with kids. 10:00am - 11:15am, walk to main street plaza and go to jamba, star bucks, or Albertsons. 12:00 - 3:30pm, walk to Cahalan Park and do nothing!!! 4:00pm - 6:00pm, check kids out and talk to parents about bad kids. 6:00 - 6:30pm, clean up and go home. 12 hours and no breaks!!
Tuesday 9:00am go to Blackberry Farms; 6:00pm go home.
Wednesday 9:00am go on big field trip (Great America, Raging Waters, San Francisco Zoo...) 6:00pm go home
Thursday 9:00am go swimming in Santa Clara or on site. 6:00 - 7:30pm weekly meeting
Friday 9:00am go to a park or go swimming; 6:00pm go home.
Sat and Sun. Call parents and program -3hrs. Total Hours worked a week? 50 - 54 average.
That’s why I was so busy this summer!!!
So before the summer started I had to go to a director's training at the Y. As soon as I walked in my eyes met with an extremely good looking girl. I knew right away that she was an interesting girl. So I sat down and looked right across the table and saw a girl that I went to Homecoming Dance with in 98! In was not a good time, it was my first dance and I think she liked me, but I didn’t have the same feelings. So the rest of the summer that was the joke in the camp, Tim and Roja...
A couple of weeks later all the directors and leaders had to go to training. Everybody who worked for the Y in the summer, in the Santa Clara County was there.
One session of training this beautiful girl Marissa, the same one I was telling you about, leans over and says, "So, are you cool to hang out this summer?" I knew exactly what she meant, hanging with the group of workers, going out to dinner with lots of people, etc... But I replied, "With just you?" She began to stutter and feel extremely uncomfortable, I said, "Just Kidding! Totally we all should hang out." I knew from that moment that she liked me, and that I was really interested in getting to know her more.
In the next few weeks, it was up and down about how I felt about her. I wasn’t sure if she had a boy friend or if she just liked wearing rings. A bunch of us went to the beach one Saturday and she and I were supposed to go together, but at the last minute when I was getting ready, my phone rang... before I looked at who it was I knew it was her (she had never called me before), While talking to her, she said that she was already at the beach and that I had to meet this really cool guy she knows... How does she know him, how well, are they dating, is she interested in me??? I instantly jumped to conclusions. So I thought that our flirting was over. I show up at the beach and she is sitting right next to some guy I don’t know!!! Come on!!! What luck, I finally meet some girl that is beautiful, not a bitch, fun, has a great smile, everything that I have ever wanted and she has a b/f. Well this sucks.
So after the beach we drive back to the Y and then we go to the Branham Lounge, all of us. So Marissa and Ryan (the other guy) are there and about 15 minutes into the night at the bar and I find out he has a g/f, that is not there!!! Hallelujah!!! So as the night went on, I was sitting next to Marissa and she and I were doing that almost touch things (It’s a great feeling). Finally she grabbed my hand and like they say... the rest is history...We had a few speed bumps to get through but now I am happier than I have ever been, happier than I have been with any girl ever!!!
PS - She can cook too!!!!